Hi Ken. I love the site, and wish I had started reading it before arriving in China.
I teach English at a kindergarten, though I am employed by a third party company that the school pays. I figured out early on that teaching in a kindergarten was not for me, but made the choice to stay through the semester for the benefit of my company and school. My contract allows for termination so long as I give 30 days. I found a job in university that wished to hire me and signed a contract. I wanted this to go as smoothly as possible and gave my company notice three weeks ago, about two months before the semester ends.
My boss was supportive of me and asked me to not tell the school I would be leaving. Despite being uncomfortable with this, I complied, again, to make sure this went as smoothly as it could. She quickly told the school something that has their headmaster suspecting that I may be leaving, because since then I've had to deal with school staff asking me several times I week if I will be leaving the school. I suspect she may be waiting until there's so little time that the school won't have time to find a new foreign teacher on their own, and will have no choice (she hopes) but to continue working with my company as they will have another teacher on standby for them.
I figured getting a letter from her would not be difficult, as I have been on good terms with the company since I've been here. When I asked for a reference letter via email, she appeared to scoff at the notion, saying that even though my school feedback has been great, leaving in the middle of the year is not proper behavior. I wrote back as diplomatically as I could, keeping a previous post in mind. (http://middlekingdomlife.com/ask-ken/reference-and-release-letters-from-current-employer-t140.html), and further telling her that I have continued to lie to the school on her behalf, to my own detriment, because she asked me to. As of now she's no longer responding to my emails. I tried to call but received no answer because of the holiday weekend. I'm debating about not even bothering to seek out the letter any more, just so I can come clean with the school headmaster and work out my last month and half at the school without the added pressure of keeping up this facade.
The recruiter acting as the go-between for the university and me doesn't seem too concerned about it (I will be working directly for the school, I made sure of that,) telling me to just get letters proving two years of work experience from back home. I figure the university itself is not the most difficult to get hired into because my only teaching experience is a single semester in a kindergarten (even with my BA degree, none of the first- or second-tier city universities I applied to ever responded, even the ones with ads that say no teaching experience needed.)
There's a lot of stuff here, I know. My main question is do the rules of release/recommendation letters apply just as much when one is not coming from a university and, further, not actually employed by the school? Further complicating things is that my company told it was okay to enter the country on an L-visa (I know this is stupid now, and I will be the first to admit I should have done the research.) I have a residency permit now, but I still worry after the things I've read on MKL and similar sites. Any advice you can offer is greatly appreciated. Thank you.
