Narcissistic Tendencies Test

Is Your Partner a Narcissist?

For each of the following 25 questions, think of your girlfriend (or boyfriend) and score each one from 1 through 5 using the following key: 1—strongly disagree; 2—somewhat disagree; 3—not sure/can't really say; 4—somewhat agree; 5—strongly agree.

1. She feels that exceptions to the rules should be made for her.
2. She has expectations of herself that I or others view as unrealistic.
3. She fakes emotions she thinks she ought to have but doesn't really have.
4. She seems uncomfortable with or undeserving of flattery or praise.
5. She becomes outraged if she believes someone has slighted or ignored her.
6. She is very forgiving of herself whenever she does anything wrong, but is very hard on or critical of me or others.
7. She will overextend herself or go into debt in order to make a good impression.
8. Deep down inside, she knows she is underappreciated for her talents, beauty, or achievements (real or imagined).
9. She is overly concerned with or excessively proud of her physical appearance.
10. She believes she has been cheated or deprived of something which is due her.
11. You or others view her as "spoiled."
12. She loves being the center of attention.
13. She knows she is smarter or cleverer than others.
14. She has been referred to as "modest" or "humble."
15. She hates or procrastinates taking care of anything she considers to be mundane or routine (like paying bills).
16. She believes that the universe has something very special in store for her.
17. She thinks that her time is more valuable than most other's.
18. She has no patience or tolerance for other people's problems.
19. During conversations, she listens more than she talks.
20. She doesn't seem to notice when she is boring others or has warn out her welcome.
21. She has spied on me, eavesdropped, read my e-mail or otherwise snooped through my computer or personal belongings.
22. She believes that she has psychic or other special abilities.
23. Whether at work or at home, she tried to get out of doing menial tasks.
24. She seemed to almost immediately fall in love with me in the beginning, and then quickly cooled-off after that.
25. She has a history of abruptly ending relationships without ever thinking about them again.